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    • #144284
      LittleRobin
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      @IAmGoodEnough Reiki has helped a little although my therapist isn’t happy with my progress as I am pretty much in the same anxious state I have been in for a while! Trying to deal with my situation in a better way but struggling to see the light a lot of the time.

    • #144263
      LittleRobin
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      Thank you TS and tea and biscuits – I actually found out about an organisation called Rights for women who give free advice. Going to call them in the week.

    • #144262
      LittleRobin
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      To add a bit more info to my original post – I saw a tarot reader (just for fun) and she said there was a little girl around me. Did not mention this to anyone, a couple of weeks later my reiki therapist mentioned seeing a little girl around me. Then a couple of weeks later she mentioned the little girl to me again and told me that it’s me and my inner child needs work.

      Getting tired – thank you I think I need to try and read a book on it first before I pursue any therapy, just so I understand it all a bit better and won’t be as nervous.

      IamGoodEnough – glad it worked for you. Will definitely take on board your advice.

      nBumblebee – I hope that whether this works for you or not you find your way and heal. If I find some good books I will share them here and it may help you with understanding the therapy (exactly what I need too) xxx

    • #144248
      LittleRobin
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      Such a well thought out and encouraging poem. I love it 🙂

    • #144246
      LittleRobin
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      Thanks Hazydayz, nothing seems to make any sense to me. He had a pretty bad car accident (detail removed by Moderator) and I was on the phone to him checking up on him etc. Then he told me he wanted space…now he keeps reaching out and this morning (detail removed by Moderator). It’s weird but it has made me question whether he has done this on purpose to get my attention again! I don’t think I do know him. Not how I thought.

    • #144215
      LittleRobin
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      He is trying to scare you and stop you from leaving by making it difficult. I hope that you arre ok. Seek some legal advice I was told about a free helpline called Rights of Women who provide legal advice. May be able to help you further.

    • #144209
      LittleRobin
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      Yes a big time worrier. Abusive relationships impact our flight or flight response and stress hormones are released into our body making us jittery and anxious. Breathing exercises and meditation help

    • #144087
      LittleRobin
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      Your case will be accepted as you are a priority with children. You need to inform them about his threats and push they need to do something and soon. Keep going. They will sort you out.

    • #144086
      LittleRobin
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      Hope you’re ok. The silent treatment is actually so draining. Best thing I found was to try and keep myself busy. They honestly behave like sulky toddlers.

    • #144050
      LittleRobin
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      Sending love your way x

    • #144028
      LittleRobin
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      It’s such a difficult situation but I do feel solidarity in knowing I’m not alone x I’m glad in your case someone called him out on it.

    • #143976
      LittleRobin
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      Thank you, Lisa. It is very draining.

      Later in the day, he sent another message (this time not deleting) (detail removed by moderator) So I replied (detail removed by moderator) I thought maybe he wanted to develop the conversation so I just asked him (detail removed by moderator).

      He knows we have serious things to discuss which he should be initiating as he has made decisions and every time I ask to discuss he claims (detail removed by moderator) and when I give him the space he reaches out with pointless chit chat. I don’t really see what his driving force is or his purpose with all this. I just want to fix things or move on and he seems to be giving me neither option. Very frustrating.

    • #143888
      LittleRobin
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      Thank you all

    • #143887
      LittleRobin
      Participant

      Thank you all for the advice, completely agree it is a control tactic.

      I told him I would file myself (if he wanted to play the victim) but as long as he paid as I am currently not working with being a student and he said no.

      Really want to stop him from having control over me but at the moment I feel very trapped. Hope it will get better for us all soon enough x

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