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It does thank you for responding my head is so messed up with everything. I hadnt realised this is a separate thing either apologies 🙁 xxx

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Thank you I needed that xx

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Thank you for your advice I am truly grateful xx

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I loved the series I cried throughout and found some situations alarmly close to home.I did struggle with her character though because although I was feeling like I was walking on egg shells or watching everything I said or did I did stand up to mg ex. I called him out. We rowed but I wasn’t afraid of him as such. I was more anxious of what he would start questioning with me next.
There were times were I didn’t act appropriately I might have swore, lost my temper, been dismissive or even said nasty things which had sent me off on another little mind hunt. I’m glad I did those things it meant I was still me but wonder did I make him worse

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Thank you I will read up xx

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Hey
I’m new so I’m sorry if I barging in here but my ex only (detail removed by moderator) ago now and (detail removed by moderator) attempts to leave did this to me.
He would constantly question everything I was doing, who I was with, where I was going. He eventually put cameras in our home without my knowledge, held me down looking for something he thought I was concealing and hallucinated thinking i was (detail removed by moderator) (I wasn’t). Turned out he was abusing cocaine.

I’m still working out if I was abused but bottom line it’s not right, it’s not healthy and you don’t have to put up with it.

Sending love xx

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Your wonderful thank you I will definitely look at reading this

Xxx

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Thank you so much I’ve literally just walked out. I will get on to them today and make a start moving away from him financially.

If I have shouted at him or criticised him I’m not the same as him am I? I don’t do drugs but I feel like I may have made things worse. I can’t work out if that sounds silly

Xxx

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I totally agree thank you for helping me xx

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Thank you for responding I feel so alone and so confused. My daughter is missing him and cries for him but he hasn’t tried contact not that I would hand her over but no contact is just hurtful. I know this is try and get be back.
Thank you for your advice I will take it

Stay safe, be strong xxx

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