Thank you so much everyone so I left my husband of (Detail removed by Moderator)years in (Detail removed by Moderator). I was in a physically abisive relationship in the beginning of our marriage. He was obsessed with the cleaning and nothing I did was ever good enough. This stopped and we went on to have children now aged (Detail removed by Moderator) and (Detail removed by Moderator). Girls. As they have grown he has been emotionally abusive towards me and I’ve lived under coercive control. I wasn’t allowed to go out with my friends. My family were hated by him though they showed nothing but support. He controlled the finances to the degree I’d be stuck with no money in town with no way of getting home. This is When I’ve had the children with me. I’ve been their carer as he’s worked long hours until (Detail removed by Moderator) @ night. My youngest has additional needs she is non verbal.
Anyway my recent problem now has arise. In childcare….he has been suicidal and I’ve been very worried about his stability. The early help team and gp both asked me if I thought he was fit to look after the children as they had knowledge that he’d taken an overdose lately… friends reported he was shakey…
anyway the arrangement when I first left was 50:50….he protested to my plan saying I was being unfair then he refused to put another proposal together. I changed it (Detail removed by Moderator) as I moved into a rental property so I said the girls could stay with me during tyke week and see him every other weekend.-in addition he could have an after school teatime until (Detail removed by Moderator) and an overnight in the week…
Now (Detail removed by Moderator) he is refusing to bring my girls home to me… he says my eldest doesn’t want to come home to me and wants to stay there with him…
What do I do….. thank you
