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Sending hugs. You will make it out of there.

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Thank you Kip. Thank you for being so kind and supportive x

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Thank you Lisa that’s really useful information. I’m just popping in to let you all know I’m okay.
I’ve been in touch with professionals today and am feeling better.
Thank you all for being there for me x

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Thank you Lisa.
It’s a terrible life sentence family court have lumbered me with, but today I’ve made it. I’m still alive I’m still here.
I shouldn’t have to go through any of it. But it is what it is. Last night I was sobbing and sobbing like a baby on the floor.
But to family court none of this matters. My feelings don’t matter. They’re all about giving perpetrators all the access they need to carry on their abuse.
I’m sorry to sound negative, but I am literally living in a hell which I made the effort to escape. All thanks to them.

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Thank you. I’m glad I made it through last night.
With the abuse still ongoing from him, sometimes I just can’t stand it anymore. Most of the time I manage to block it out. I’ve told the police but even they can’t do anything to change the court order.
So I’m stuck with being punished with being abused for life. It makes me feel so defeated knowing I got out, I was free, then idiot family court decided that I have to have this perpetrator in my life all over again.
As long as they are making such stupid decisions there’s no hope.

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Just want to say I’m so sorry.

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Yes unfortunately they never give up trying to maintain control.
You just have to try to ignore his tactics as much as possible.
As you said, you know the truth of what’s going on so if anyone challenges your decisions just tell them there’s two sides to every story and leave it at that.
Domestic abuse gets so much media coverage now that they’d have to be living under a rock not to have some kind of awareness of dv. If they’re so silly to believe his lies without asking questions then that’s their problem not yours.

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Wow how inspirational 🙂
I am leaps behind you in recovery, but you really are a true example to show there is actual real normal life beyond abuse.
Thank you for sharing this x

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Absolutely! 🙂
Im so glad not only to be free, but that I’m free to be me.
Great post x

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Isn’t it weird how they all do the same thing? And then they think we won’t know. Knowledge is power. If there’s one thing that’s come out of my suffering its the empowerment I feel from knowing all these truths.
Thank you for sharing this.

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But you know what? You are a strong woman and an ambassador of justice. You are such a beacon of hope the way you keep inspiring people through your posts and comments.
You’ve come through the hard times so well.
Keep your chin up.
He might have injured you, but he can’t break you.

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Your story is so inspiring. I can just imagine how elated you must have felt reaching the top of that hill. I’m so happy for you. Keep strong x

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As others have said, well done. That’s really amazing news x

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Well done you and congratulations on your growing confidence and freedom x

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Thank you for this x

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