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    • #123004
      True2myself
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      This post has really helped me, thank you.
      He’s gone (detail removed by moderator) and I’m struggling being alone with heartbroken kids and I’m poorly. No energy and knowing I’ve just wasted alotttt of years. He’s not allowed near house so I’m safe that way but stresses come different ways from him, thru the children.

    • #122935
      True2myself
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      Thank you everyone ♥️

    • #123985
      True2myself
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      Thank you, all reported. It’s draining. I’m just so tired and wanna sleep every day

    • #123984
      True2myself
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      😱 isn’t it so true that when we hear about others experiences we are just shocked but never about our own. I’m so sorry that happened to you.

      Yea it ruined my week, ripped my heart apart and my link worker said today that’s what he wanted to do.

    • #123569
      True2myself
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      Hi currently I can’t but I will be soon. Need to sell the house first.

    • #123512
      True2myself
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      Thank you, he’s been gone almost (removed by moderator) and (removed by moderator) is the Day he’s at court. He’s a total nightmare and I can’t think what I saw in him for (removed by moderator) years. I have such alot to sort out now and learn. As much as this is so stressful and not sure what’s gonna happen next, I ask in the house with the kids and it’s a much happier place. I still get jumpy and scared to leave doors open incase he comes by yeah it’s good my children see I’m better without him. I’ve started divorce and just getting it all over with. I haven’t been reporting to police but I report it all to social worker, solicitor and woman’s aid. Police will be next cos he thinks he’s getting home (removed by moderator) and I’ve been told it’s more likely gonna be a year until he’s allowed so I’m expecting him to kick off. He wants this house so badly. More than he wants the kids, no joke. He’s being bad just now but when everything settles he will find himself alone and he will see what he’s lost

    • #123307
      True2myself
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      Yeah it’s hard, that’s what I do too. I think I snap out of it again because he’s being awkward about everything. I have to do all the running with kids and car to him or its stressful. It’s getting reported to social workers though. His mum tells me I abused him too. It’s hard to cope. I hope your ok and we are strong and we will be ok. Wish I could fast forward the hurt away.

    • #123188
      True2myself
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      Yes, I was with him (detail removed by Moderator) and now I’m really not sure who him or his mum are. I thought they loved me and I loved them most in world as well as my children but now they have been acting bad to me for exposing him. I guess his mum thinks I’ve just to accept it and carry on. She knows I’m leaving for good but won’t tell him. He’s at her house and she tells him in devastated and allows him to say….I need this over with to get back to my family. She wants me to break the news. I thought he was perfect. Part of me thinks he was for years. We never went without. It’s really hard to believe they could lie that long but who knows. From what I read, they can. He’s being awkward as well about getting kids or getting his precious car. I have to do all the running but I’m reporting it all. I’m so used to him being here is just hard, we were together 24/7 for (detail removed by Moderator) and I’m not joking lol now I see that’s not healthy but yeah dunno how to get thru this but I guess we Will cos we are stronger than them. We will thrive and they won’t. It’s just super sad and I can’t believe I’ve wasted so long. I’m going on now so I’ll stop lol

    • #123176
      True2myself
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      Thank you, aww hope you are ok. I bet they aren’t on support groups talking about crying for us lol but yeah it’s really difficult and when I cry is like bad.

    • #123171
      True2myself
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      Aww thank you that made so much sense. I truly need that strength. ♥️

    • #123140
      True2myself
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      Thank you 🙂

    • #123120
      True2myself
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      It’s so annoying, why can’t they just be good. It’s very stressful already, he wants everything his way and I have to do the running and I’m starting to do that just to keep peace

    • #122729
      True2myself
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      Yeah he’s done that alot. Said he’s gonna put them into care cos he knows it will hurt me

    • #122717
      True2myself
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      Very well put. Thank you. In the past he’s always said he’s too selfish to do that but he’s talked about it so much and when reality sets in when he’s living somewhere else and alone I just don’t know. It’s like the children don’t matter. It’s me or suicide.

    • #122703
      True2myself
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      🙂

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