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Thank you for replying. This spot on!

I always hoped that he will change and till this day is behaviour hasn’t whenever he is annoyed with something. Every little argument always ends up being so much more bigger and extreme than you can think off and I wonder to myself its such a minor thing why is he over reacting.

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Sometimes I think am I the problem am I just too soft and let things go so easily?
Like what if I was a bitch to him would he still do that? Also if I left him will it be the same with the next partner or is it just me?

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Thank you so much for replying back. The thing that I struggle to understand is that if he is doing this on purpose and does he know what he is doing or is it something he cant help?

I have got a journal with the things he has done to to remind me of all the arguments he has had with me.

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Thank you so much for replying to my post. I can so relate to your experience! I would tell my husband what time I will be back but if I am slightly late for whatever reason my heart would be beating fast incase he starts thinking and making assumptions about where I was or what I was doing to be late.

Even with my communication with my mum, it was always on the way home from work that was the only time I would be able to communicate to her in private!

I have seen some of Dr Ramani videos in the past, I will watch more. I am guessing you left your partner? If so any tips on how you made that move to leave your partner? Because I am scared that if I do leave, will I be strong enough to not go back! Thanks x

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