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    • #133912
      Stargazing1
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      I’m glad your feeling happier too .

    • #133911
      Stargazing1
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      Hi flowers after floods . I’m so happy for you . I’m glad you gained contact with old friends. So so happy for you .x

    • #133724
      Stargazing1
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      Hi kit kat don’t be disappointed in yourself please . Dealing with anything like this is really really hard. You are strong even though you might not think it . Getting out is hard . Don’t be hard on yourself. Please take care. Sending hugs..

    • #133646
      Stargazing1
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      Hi kit kat , if you do manage to get out I wish you all the luck in the world . You have so much strength. One last step and you will be free . All the best xx

    • #133599
      Stargazing1
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      Yes I have and still am ignoring my gut feeling.

    • #133498
      Stargazing1
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      I think having anxiety about leaving is justified in circumstances like these . I really really want to leave and cannot seem to get back the strength I had the last time I tried to leave . I rang Samaritans today to talk things over because I felt so low . I didn’t tell them everything about my home life just a little bit and they seemed to think that something isn’t quite right with my situation basically saying his behaviour is wrong . My only explanation for me still being here is because I’m ill at the moment and I am trying to soldier on the best I can with the illness its no excuse I know . If the lady who wrote the post successfully managers to leave I wish the lady all the luck in the world . I just wish I had more strength. Best wishes to everyone ❤

    • #133424
      Stargazing1
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      Hi Eggshells , I want to wish you the best of luck in all you do . You are so strong . I’m glad to hear you are excited. You have been so helpful to others. I really do wish you all the best . Take care xx

    • #133120
      Stargazing1
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      I have read many post on the forum and always find similar things happening in other people’s life’s. I have had many a time where I’ve blamed myself and I’ve had many conversations with womens aid who tell me it is abuse . I am and still will blame myself for all the stuff that happens. I’ve become weak and stuck due to illness. I believe it isn’t you . It’s is hard to believe it sometimes but please believe me it is definitely not you . Please take care. There’s a saying go with what your gut tells you .

    • #133119
      Stargazing1
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      Good for you . Yes you should be proud of yourself. Nice one 👍 .

    • #132760
      Stargazing1
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      Hi gazebo I meant to write I’m not feeling very well . Sorry about that .

    • #132744
      Stargazing1
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      Hi Gazebo, I’m still here yes . I’m not much help to anyone today I’m feeling very well . I know what you mean about the dread of it . Sending hugs . Hopefully you will get that call soon x

    • #132726
      Stargazing1
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      I’m not sure if anything I’ve written has helped I may have got stuff wrong apologies if I have x

    • #132725
      Stargazing1
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      Hi plodding it’s probably not much of an answer but these people who are doing these things make me want to puke. Conflicting messages and mannerisms just to confuse us even more . Also when we have been treat by these people so badly their idea of a joke ain’t funny anymore . They are very clever . The person I’m with has said to me many many times I know how to play the game . Whoa what a big man he is NOT . I’m sure they try to make us think we are crazy but it’s not us it’s them . Please look after yourself x

    • #132724
      Stargazing1
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      Gazebo alot of what you write I can so relate to it .I too like yourself want to tell him f off. I too find being alone so much better than being with him . I am sorry to hear you are so down but I think that’s how it gets us . Hope the chat at the clinic went well . I just can’t believe how your story had so many similarities. Take care 🙂

    • #132678
      Stargazing1
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      Hi working on it , I’m sorry to hear that you have no support also . I think its coming to something when no one around you wants to know . I feel for you I really do . All we want is for our family or friends to be supportive it’s not much to ask . This kind of situation is never easy . I’m so sorry you are going what you are going through. Take care x

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