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      Sunflower4Y
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      Thanks so much for all your replies. It really helps.

      I think it’s just so hard because despite it all, I just miss him so much- I feel like I can only remember the good things and that I was a fool to let someone go. I also feel completely unlovable and that I was stupid to leave someone who “loved” me. There’s a side to my brain that tells me all the things that were wrong, but I just can’t believe them.

      Why is this so hard 🙁

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      Sunflower4Y
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      Hi both,

      Thank you so much for your lovely replies. It’s really helped to hear your experiences. When I tried to leave he made me believe he was going to unalive himself and then after that he told me the abuse I had inflicted on him has caused him to be physically unwell and he was going to die in (detail removed by moderator), so I have been feeling awful. It’s hard when you can see their side, but he thinks im a selfish monster- and then I believe that narrative. It’s hard to live with. I will check out that book, thank you for the recommendation. Sending you both strength and love xxx

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