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    • #11697
      Sunnybynature
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      Hello I’m new here , I’m (detail removed by moderator) years old and had been married for 20 years to a wonderful man but I was feeling ‘ is this it ‘ we’ll talk about be careful what you wish for. I leave my husband for my now second husband .he is the most disgusting human being I’ve ever met.he is an athlete , takes steroids. He’s moody abusive and nastier to me than anyone I’ve ever met. I feel like I’m going slowly mad. So far I’ve spent a night in a police cell, the fact I called them seems irrelevant although it was because he was abusive. He told them I had caused criminal damage to his property and had me arrested.hes pushed me down the stairs, thrown me around like a rag doll and stuffed papers in my mouth whilst he pinned me down on the floor. He is 16 stone I am 9 stone. He calls me a no good piece of sh… Says I’m thick, that I’m not all there and that I need help. I know it’s him but I just can’t leave, what’s wrong with me?

    • #11696
      Sunnybynature
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      God I read your post and it sounds so like me , my husband just completely blanks me or screams at me to leave him alone or to get out of his sight. We know a normal man wouldn’t behave like this so why do we stay?

    • #11687
      Sunnybynature
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      Hello I’m new on here and I know exactly how you feel. I too cry every day and I wake up feeling like there’s no way out. I lack the strength to walk away yet I remember every little thing he’s said and done..Does he say it’s you making him like that or getting his back up? Apparently this is all my fault…yet I never had these problems before. If I play the game and do things his way it’s fine but what a way to live. I just can’t let go of any of it. I’m so resentful of the things he’s done. Emotional and physical but it’s all my fault

    • #11686
      Sunnybynature
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      Hi I went through the biggest changes during my menopause. I was married to the kindest loveliest man ever for 20 years. I was looking for that all encompassing passion. Well I found it. I’m now married to a man who really is abusive, emotionally physically every which way. So yes I would say though of course it’s not the sole reason menopause does make you angry and skewer your view on things

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