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Hi Lisa, he is on anti depressents and is getting a therapist, so i will stand bye him.

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Also seeing a therapist.

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Star you sound like you are reaching out for help, are you getting help?
as i said previously, i have no friends or relatives, and i cant go anywhere apart from the supermarket and back, not much of a life, no job either so i really do understand, my husband (seperated) does exactly the same, hand always down his boxers, but he became a man baby, which disgusted me, a whole list of not nice things, pm me if you feel the need, we are all here for each other xx

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LittleP you are were i was last year, i feel for you, as i was there.
Live chat, do try.
Have you tried live chat on here?
Womans Aid advised me, to contact my local DA, now i have a support worker,keep posting xx

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Me to i have never had to deal with it all, CAB will help you with UC, AS I said live chat is brill. Little P you are just at the beginning, it took me many months to get were i am today, i now have a support worker. Keep trying live chat xx

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Not sure if this is under the same heading.
The other day, i realized he has been in my bedroom, for most of you that know, i have been living in my bedroom for many months.
So when i left, i put my camera on, to catch him out, yes i was right.
As soon as i entered the house, he started shouting saying, hes never done it before, shouting, what do i have to hide, why do i keep locking my bedroom door, i must have something to hide, what is it, shouting.
He does not lock his bedroom door, so why should i.
i asked for the key back, he denies having one, saying he broke in with a crowbar, so what does he do, breaks into my bedroom, with me still in it, to show me how he did it.

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Ah i see, i tried CAB, they have live chat, which is fast. xx

[sweet4]

I have been on UC for a few months, no small kids though. Pick up the phone and speak to UC, they will guide you. x

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Mine has got worse, i am sure its alot with staying together, for more than 3 decades,you become a part of each other, and that is why it is so difficult to leave them.x

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That is awful, never happened to me before, tell him, your not doing him a favour, am i right in saying as some woman, just do it to keep the marriage together, i did.

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My dreams are like the movies 🤣

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Yea you are right.Tire, i think they get off on everything they do to us, i remember, i was dealing with an electricity company, for a year, and it really affected me, do you know what he said, its a buzz, its a bloody, buzz, and i was struggling, lovely husband. xx

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Star, this is what they do. xx

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Yip, had flowers, and apologies but this time its different, he has not said a word, its been since before Christmas, so upwards and onwards.

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Me to, no job, no relatives, no friends, and it sucks.I do have adult kids, but they dont live hear anymore, and get on with their own lives, but it hurts me, as they know about my life and the dont do anything about it.😒

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