Thereisalwaysaway

[Thereisalwaysaway]

You’ve detached due to the abusive ways he has been treating you. It will only get worse. I’m in a similar position but I’m trying to get out.

[Thereisalwaysaway]

update :

 

each day is getting worse. I dread them coming home, giving dig after dig or getting annoyed at my kids. Nothing has come up on my councils housing list yet and I’m searching the housing associations daily. I’ve looked at private rent but it’s so expensive ! If I was to private rent I’d have very little money left over each month, but then I also don’t know when a house will come up with the council.
I have considered the council offer of temp accommodation in a b&b, but they aren’t in a nice area plus I don’t think my kids dad would be happy about them in a b&b and would probably want them with him, which would then start a custody battle.

[Thereisalwaysaway]

I’m at the point now where I referred to a local Domestic Abuse charity and have signed up for my councils housing list.
I keep having doubts, my brother was confused after speaking to him, saying how it all seems very sudden and is it that bad? As she’s been really nice at present, that’s also casting doubts and now Im thinking that I’m been over the top! Arghh

[Thereisalwaysaway]

A day after I wrote this post they asked why I was distant, if I loved them, if I wanted to leave etc. I hated lying and I felt so guilty after and also confused as then afterwards they have been a lot happier etc. so now I’m convinced it’s not that bad, they are just very insecure and that’s why they react the way they do

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