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    • #130672
      Tinkerblue
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      Do some people just think the law doesn’t apply to them? It’s just unbelievable isn’t it!
      Women’s refuge contacted me and said we’re sending me an alarm but haven’t, I will chase them up tomorrow. The police just rang they are busy and coming tomorrow now xxx

    • #130666
      Tinkerblue
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      I’m in bits again, just had to ring the police because he’s made indirect contact with me. Bail conditions have been broken, I’m so scared. I have a feeling he will come round I’m literally sat here in the dark alone and frightened… please tell me this gets easier xxxx

    • #130302
      Tinkerblue
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      Thank you so so much, your message has made me feel so much better about the situation. There are bail conditions and I’ve done everything I can for him not be around us, locks changed, arranged for his (detail removed by moderator)etc to be collected by the police, I’ve accepted the offer for the children to have counselling at some point when they are ready and given all evidence I can. I’m hoping the neighbours do understand that I could not control his behaviour this time but we are a family that just keep ourselves to ourselves, hopefully this embarrassment feeling will go away. I can’t thank you enough for what you have wrote and will keep reading it to remind me and I can keep telling my children that I love them so much and will always be there for them… thanks again xxxx

    • #130675
      Tinkerblue
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      I’ve only just seen this, thank you so much for your support and advice. Got 2 kids in bed with me, double checked the doors and windows. You sound like you are doing so much better, you are inspiring me to keep going x x x

    • #130340
      Tinkerblue
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      Good morning better times ahead, sounds pretty similar to what happened here. Thank you for your message and I hope you are ok? Xxxx

    • #130319
      Tinkerblue
      Participant

      Thank you again Wants to Help, your advice is absolutely amazing and I just keep reading your messages to get through today, the adrenaline and shock has reduced a little and reality is setting in. Thank you for saying I will be blamed for his sentence because I’m prepared now, in the past I’ve always accepted that it was my fault for the violence, when I know that I hadn’t done anything to deserve it. I tried so hard for so long to hide it from everyone including the kids it’s exhausting. The police have said I have to ring them if he tries to contact any of us. In a way it’s like I’m talking about someone I don’t know but yet I knew exactly how he is … it’s just no one else did.
      I will download that now GR and check my online accounts too, thank you xxxx

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