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    • #113093
      Hazydayz
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      My life seems to be one thing after another…Example…in these last few days, I’m posting positive momements of unexpected joy one day, positive thoughts the next…even on a bad day! The worst calendar day of my life, most traumatic of my chilhood. A memory now, that plays out quietly in the background of my life, but seems to be the basis of all that’s happened throughout my chequered board life? I go revisit, on the anniversary of that terrible day! to lay flowers in hope of some comfort that never comes, there’s no escape. Then today…out of the blue again!… realisation from contact with a supposed loving and caring close family member, comes a blow to the heart. She has no understanding or compassion for my situation! Mistaking my tears of sadness, she delivers her best…This last mess…It’s my own fault! I’m told. She can’t see my pain! I’m having a bad day… On top of it all, I’m Losing my only loving & trusted always beside me furry companion, to old age! and the ultimate soul destroying parting… final soul destroying decision, I must make for her, to take away any suffering to her that is coming now. I’m feeling so sad😭and hurting.

    • #113101
      LozzyX
      Participant

      Awww happydayz sorry to hear your having a difficult time at the moment … Do not let one person’s hurtful , probably ignorant , comments bring you down…some ppl just can’t help themselves have to cast judgement on a situation they don’t understand, makes themselves feel better ….ignore!!

      . Spend time cuddling with your furry companion, ththis time is precious… I think we love pets so much more than humans as they love us unconditionally and will never abuse us …they are our soulmates .. sending positive vibes to you xx

      • #113111
        Hazydayz
        Participant

        LozzyX thankyou for responding, your much appreciated💐 and your right about some people. And precious moments with loved and such loving, furry companions. They’re such good company, so true. Breaks our hearts losing them, they leave their foot prints on our hearts when they’re gone🐾💞

    • #113123
      Watersprite
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      Hi Hazydayz had to reply to this – your reply’s are always so inspiring and positive and strong! But I hear you there are deep injustices and pain as well. Perhaps those times make us truly grateful and appreciate the simplest things. Re furry friend companion aren’t they the best – sending support to you on a tough day.

      • #113151
        Hazydayz
        Participant

        Bless you Watersprite 💕 I do try to uplift all, something I’ve always felt I needed to do. Soothe others suffering like me. I can’t save me or anyone really but I try. My furry best friend has been a source of great comfort to me but I’m facing being without her very soon and with little comfort elsewhere, I shall be here often to seek and offer comfort no doubt. See you here again 💞

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