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Domestic abuse in Black and Minority Ethnic communities
Domestic abuse in BME (Black and ethnic minority) communities, please share you experiences here
- 1 day ago
Is it abuse?
Sometimes its difficult to decide whether what you are experiencing is actually abusive. This is especially true when your partner is telling you that it's your fault and blames you for their anger or control. Do let us know about how you are feeling and what you are experiencing.
- 17 hours, 36 minutes ago
We would like to give you the opportunity to share your successes and good days with each other
- 16 hours, 20 minutes ago
Are you experiencing familial abuse? Share your experiences here. Best wishes Lisa
- 4 days, 16 hours ago
Refuges & Emergency Accommodation
What is life like in a refuge? Share your experiences and questions here.
- 3 days, 15 hours ago
- Domestic abuse in Black and Minority Ethnic communities