Struggling

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- 1st October 2020 at 4:30 pm #114546
  
  Bettertimesahead
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  Struggling today. Recently went back to work and that’s been tough. No stupid texts or calls in the day but it just highlighted all thats changed and lost. Today hes playing the victim on social media and I’m scared of what he might post. I’m angry that my retirement will now be way off as I will need to mortgage. I’m disgusted at things he did, that I let him do. I’m ashamed of the effect on my adult kids . I’m struggling…
- 1st October 2020 at 5:21 pm #114553
  
  KIP.
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  Hold your head high. Block him on social media. Limit contact. Contact is toxic x keep going. Your freedom is worth it. We are everything without them, they are nothing without us x
- 1st October 2020 at 7:18 pm #114559
  
  Tabletop
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  Stay strong, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Let him say what he wants. You know the truth and you can hold your head up high knowing you are free now. I understand your worry for your children but even as adults their strength will come from you. Tomorrow will be a good day. Tomorrow will be a good day because it’s your day and not his x
- 1st October 2020 at 7:36 pm #114566
  
  Bettertimesahead
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  Thank you. It’s so hard. But I know that when this is finally over I will be good , it’s just a long hard process to get there and I know hes going to make divorce as difficult as possible.
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