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I left a very abusive relationship a while ago. Although I now have PTSD I’m so much happier with my new free life. But. He still continues to abuse me. I have a (detail removed by Moderator) so now he harasses me through my solicitor. (detail removed by Moderator) it seems pointless in many ways. Police are dealing with it but so slow… DC and I have lost half our family because they believe his lies. Now I’ve discovered he was cheating on me for years with multiple partners including paying for it. So now I have to have STD tests and am really really upset. There’s more but it’s so horrific I can’t even type it. When does it ever stop? When will he stop trying to contact me? What part of “go away” does he not understand?? What is wrong with these people!!
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m so sorry youre going through this. You should not be loosing the family because of this, just goes to prove how manipulative abusers can get.
Had (detail removed by Moderator) issued and to be honest, the only thing that helped was moving. I know its not the most perfect way for you given what you`ve already gone through but its the most effective way. Change your phone number.
What part of go away they dont understand? the whole part of it is the killer of their EGOs. The fact that you dare to even say it makes them angry. They see you as their property, by saying that youve defeated them. Means they`ve lost. Its the time of punishment.
Dont hold on to cheating that much, its them and their ego, nothing to do with you. Do your test and carry on doing what youre doing.
Get in shape, do the things that you love. That will destroy his ego even more. Remember that they survive and feed of the bad things that happen to us. The good things destroy them.
Be upset, you have the right to be, but dont let him know that, he will be happy to see you sad and miserable. Nothing will make him happier that seeing you defeated.keep posting and stay safe x*x
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I’m not upset that he cheated, let’s face it he’s done worse, I’m upset I may have STDs because he can’t keep it in his pants. Yes we may end up moving to a secret address, at the moment we’re still getting divorced and I need that done before I can afford to move. I’ve got a new phone number now but my (detail removed by Moderator) work means I need a contact number online and that’s what he’s ringing. I grey rock him every time but he still does it. I just want him to go away!!!!
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How awful. It’s like having a Terminator chasing you! My ex-husband’s attempts to derail my life petered out after a few years. Every day is a step away, in time he will lose interest. Last year I had a unpaid bill arrive at my new home, with my ex-husbands name it. I think he wanted to remind me that he still hates me. And he doesn’t pay any child support and he Hasn’t done for years. The initial flurry of venom from them loses energy. It’s so hard because you never know when they are going to pop up next. Sending you lots of strength and good energy. It’s hard but it’s not forever- even though it feels that way! X
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