Still it continues …

I used to be a regular poster and think this site saved me. A lady called Flower in particular made me see what was happening. However we are now (removed by moderator) years since I left him, yet he continues to verbally abuse me, belittle me, blame and name call. I have had enough. I’ve threatened non mol orders, he just laughs and taunts. When I called the police when we were together he would laugh and taunt me. I don’t think I can go through another court battle to get a non mol order as we had one of those a few years ago over contact and there’s no guarantee I’d get the non mol order and I can’t risk that as it would just make him think all the more that he is above the law. He’s so clever and manipulative. (Detail removed by moderator) – he’s a very bitter and cruel man.

I find myself double checking the doors are locked at night which is a sign he is getting to me. I’ve grey rocked him for months and months but truth be told it is affecting me and I don’t know what to do next. I have to cooparent with this man even though his contact is only a matter of hours a week yet he still thinks it’s ok to abuse me. I ask him to stop texting and he carries on and on. I’m at a loss as how to take this forward. I’m thinking of taking all the evidence to the police – I’ve got death threats in writing and a recording from years ago. The most recent stuff is belittling and demeaning, and I think the police may say it’s too late and not serious enough. The police were called a number of times when we were together and I found some of them – not all – to be dismissive because he literally talked them round. I honestly don’t know what to do with it anymore.