I’m thinking of you Hereforhelp,
Stay strong and keep posting.
You are doing it for you and your children.
I’m glad you have contacted the relevant authorities.
Do not feel bad for him, he doesn’t feel bad for you.
I think you reach a limit of your tolerance and just snap.
I did snap too, about (detail removed by Moderator) weeks ago.
No longer do I feel bad for him, and you know what, his harassment and abuse has reduced as I stood up to him and lost it.
I thought he would be angry and upped the harassment.
I’ve enjoyed a calm few weeks, but I’m also waiting anxiously for the next escalation x