How do you cope when they are still telling lies that are affecting you even though your no longer with them?
He’s started creating this new narrative with the kids, it just seems to be little things starting at the moment him telling them different things about himself that he told me, for example what his fave (removed by moderator) was etc. They’re only little at the moment and think he’s wonderful as he always buys them stuff. I’m concerned that he will fill their heads with his lies and when I have to finally explain to them what he did they won’t believe me or worse he starts the gaslighting on them as they get older and makes them feel as worthless as he made me.
Really feeling a bit rubbish at the moment