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      Happybelle
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      So my financial parasite partner has achieved a new milestone. One that has always worried me. Their own children have finally called them out on their behaviour and they are still little. Having still been asleep at lunchtime (which is standard behaviour), the youngest was extremely upset and the oldest simply rang their mum. Something I always thought they m might do once they were old enough. They were collected within an hour.So now the fallout. And what next. His life just continues to unravel and the more it unravels the more I get guilt tripped, shouted at for money. This has all been so predictable and now I just wonder how many more things will come true thst I predicted. I don’t want any more. it’s time to get out now and I just have to be brave and be uncomfortable for a while whilst it gets sorted.

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      Lisa
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      Hi Happybelle,

      Thank you for sharing with us. Do keep us posted on how you are doing, we are here for you for whenever you need us.

      Take care,

      Lisa

    • #163818
      Happybelle
      Participant

      Thanks Lisa. He’s being a complete pig tonight. Now the issue with the children has arrived he’s completely having a melt down. Now it’s guilt trips about money and certain substances being the only thing keeping him from suicide. He needs help and won’t get it. I refuse to be manipulated with the threat of that. If he does it he does it and I can’t do anything other than call the police or ambulance for help. I refuse to take another nigjt of this when he shows absolutely no regard for me or my challenges. It’s all about him and having poor me moments all the time. Everything that’s happened to him has been entirely preventable, is completely down to him and is a result of choices he has made and taking it out on me is neither fair nor reasonable. It’s like having a massive man baby in the house and I do not have the skills to deal with this.

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