Feeling low

Help.

I left my partner about (detail removed by Moderator) ago and now his (detail removed by Moderator) is demanding to take my daughter to visit him and his family on boxing day. I don’t trust that she will be returned. He was emotionally abusive toward me and the kids. He’s punch doors, threatened to take her way from me as I’m classed as (detail removed by Moderator). So far he has only seen her (detail removed by Moderator) and asked about her (detail removed by Moderator) since i fled. My daughter hasn’t seen his (detail removed by Moderator) in over (detail removed by Moderator) months so they are not close at all. His (detail removed by Moderator) is just like him if she doesn’t get her way then she become abusive. They always have to be right and they are both opinionated. He has already asked if he can have her but I Don’t trust him. Everyone I have spoken to is telling to go with my gut. But I’m now worried that she will turn up at my door and Try and take her. if she does is that attempted kidnapping?

I have told her to back off. Which I know she didn’t like. Since I have left my migraines have stopped and I feel better in myself although I’m still having trouble falling asleep.

I don’t know what to do I’m waiting to hear back for the solicitors but I feel they will start harassing me. The worst thing is he told his (detail removed by Moderator) last year a pack of lies about my (detail removed by Moderator) daughter and his (detail removed by Moderator) wrote a s****y letter to her which made my (detail removed by Moderator) daughter not wanting to know her at all. But when she heard we split she apologised for it.

Am I being silly or are they trying to play me for a fool?