feeling confused

Hi, this is all part of the abuse, they make you feel like you are going nuts because they seem to have this ability to forget anything bad that has taken place. You are not going crazy there is nothing wrong with you I can assure you of that x

Hey Hun

That is part of their game to break us down, they upset us so much then turn the sweetness on as if their bad behaviour never even occurred. It is happening and u have to acknowledge it before u go into denial to cope which is where they really mess with our heads. I know u are prob finding this all draining, if im right in remembering this is your second abusive partner so u know how the cycle works, get in touch with support agencies to help you again