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      Liquorice
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      Since ive been on here, i keep thinking im just getting on everyones nerves now so shut up! Plus im sure ive caught him looking on my phone a few times too. Its been up and down as usuall, one day hes nice one day hes tired and grumpy, sometimes hes just plain nasty, but the newest thing is laughing at me when im upset to the point im crying, ive never been a cryer i usually just stay quiet and let him get it over with but latley i cant seem to stop myself and i hate it, crying makes me feel even weaker, like he gets to see how hes makig me feel, maybe that could be good though, maybe if he sees how much he upsets me so often he might stop. Hopefully the laughing at me crying is just him not realising i am actaully upset??

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      Peaceful Pig
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      Sorry Liquorice, but I’m afraid it’s very likely that he knows exactly how much he upsets you and is unlikely to stop. You are not weak at all and certainly don’t get on anyone’s nerves no matter what he tells you. Nobody that lives with this cruelty every day can possibly be weak. It wears us all down in time, but not forever. You will rise up and find the strength to end it when the time is right for you. Obviously keep safe, but hen you can keep posting and reading to help you stay clear in your mind that it is definitely him at fault and not you. Sending hugs x

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