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12th June 2019 at 8:25 am #80443SurvivingParticipant
When I left him I beat my depression and was even better when I got the Non Molestation order. Now I get it from his solicitor. His emails are threatening and nasty and sometimes in the middle of the night. Surely this isn’t right.. I get he isn’t my solicitor but he should still be professional. If I had a solicitor would he email her in this way. I would say this is abuse. Scaring me all the time and threatening me and being so nasty to the point I’m so down.again and can’t take it anymore
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12th June 2019 at 10:37 am #80448diymum@1Participant
The Solicitors Regulation Authority (SRA) is the regulatory body for solicitors in England and Wales.
It is responsible for regulating the professional conduct of more than 125,000 solicitors and other authorised individuals at more than 11,000 firms, as well as those working in-house at private and public sector organisations.
id be getting in touch with the regulatory body – this sounds like intimidation which is the last thing they should be doing x*x hope you get on ok xxxx
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12th June 2019 at 11:54 am #80453SurvivingParticipant
Thank you. I have emailed them (detail removed by moderator) about it. I’ve (detail removed by moderator) had a reply back from the Ex and his solicitor replying to my allegations of harm. He has denied all of them and told different storys. It’s going to be my word against his as they wont listen to my daughter as she is too young so my ex will probably get custody now
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12th June 2019 at 6:08 pm #80489diymum@1Participant
if i were you id be writing to your MP and your GP about how this is affecting you – does he get legal aid? the MP can try to help you appeal this as hes using public money to intimidate youxx
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13th June 2019 at 8:20 am #80526SurvivingParticipant
I’ve spoken to the MP about it all and they say he can’t get involved in court stuff. The doctor has written a letter but don’t think it is going to help now.
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13th June 2019 at 8:36 am #80530KIP.Participant
Do you have evidence of the different stories he tells. My ex told lies in every letter. He couldn’t even remember the lies he told his story changed all the time. If you could pull this together and discredit him with the courts. Showing he is a pathological liar. Cast doubt on his character and honesty and reliability. Email his solicitor telling him the times you wish to receive correspondence. Ie office hours, and the tone of his emails are unacceptable and asking him politely to moderate his behaviour. At least if he continues you have it in writing you have asked. I received some solicitor letters that were clearly dictated by my ex. Using the same terms he would use. Solicitors are instructed by these men and in my experience will do as theyre paid to do. Any contact is toxic and that contact is draining. Do you have support from women’s aid?
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13th June 2019 at 5:07 pm #80580SurvivingParticipant
I have emailed his solicitor kindly asking him to not email me after 7pm and also moderate his behaviour towards me in them as it’s not acceptable and he basically wrote back saying he wasn’t going to stop as he only works unsociable hours. Hey he emailed me back at lunch time so he obviously can email in the daytime and he has emailed me in the day at times
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