Just a question. I once went out with someone who I now know was abusive. We are talking many many years ago. He wanted to penetrate me with (details removed by moderator). I wouldn’t let him. I was very young and didn’t really think much of this at the time bizzarely. Just thought it a bit strange. As I get older and learn more I have thought back and I am reviewing things and just find this quite disturbing and horrific. He had a bag of (detail removed by moderator) which he showed me and grinned. They were all mis-shapen squashed and had other women’s pubic hair on them. What does everyone think about this? What was his rational for wanting to use objects for penetration? Can anyone shed any light on this? Is it a common thing?
Eeew! His game was humiliation, degradation and power. Such men see women as receptacles for all that is dirty (them and their nastiness). Sometimes their ideas come from the vilest porn and disgusting screen games.
If they get their way they feel only contempt. You’re well off out of that!