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    • #95719
      Thistle06
      Participant

      So I’ve had an awful time since Christmas and I’ve got to the point where my non molestation order can be progressed I filled it in to send back ncdv. But hes taken the pressure off this week and as per usual my resolve crumbles. I dont know if it’s just my relief but I now start thinking what if it is me and I am over reacting. Does this happen to anyone else , how can I get focused again

    • #95720
      hop
      Participant

      That’s what they train us to do. If you’re always doubting yourself then you won’t be doubting him. Try and stay as strong as you can. You’re not overreacting you’ve just been reprogrammed to think that you are xxxx

    • #95722
      Thistle06
      Participant

      I feel so pathetic have an awful time then my stupid brain goes maybe it’s not so bad maybe this was a blip ,yes another one in series of 15 years worth of blips. I am so annoyed with myself

    • #95728
      KIP.
      Participant

      Sit down and write down every episode of abuse and how it made you feel. I bet your fill page after page x

    • #95730
      diymum@1
      Participant

      Try to keep going I remember just wanting to back down so that I’d get peace. I couldn’t think straight and I was aware of that. I would do the opposite of what my own thoughts were saying eventually I didn’t trust myself. This does get better but mean try to rely on the advice your getting from womens aid police and the forum xx keep going and file for that non mol otherwise you can’t move forward xx much love diymum

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