3 women 😩

My Husband sounds similar, before I left I found out that he’d been messaging over 20 different girls (all younger than him) and was very persistent. He would constantly try to get them to get in his car or to meet up with him but they all refused. After I left he moved house to be closer to one of them, it was bordering on stalking. He even gave my clothes to one of them. I think he wanted to line up other potential girlfriends in case I left. Try as hard as you can not to let him convince you to go back, you deserve better xx

I think these cheaters get some kind of confidence knowing we are sitting at home when their plans for an affair fail. They form no bond or connections to us or anyone so they really don’t care.

I lost count at 16 he was messaging. Some of them and him sending explicit stuff. I’m worth more than that. Told him so and he carried on then wonders why I don’t want him back x

I think this is fairy common, all part of the behaviour!
My ex was already on dating sites after I left and before the divorce – my daughter saw his profile on his laptop when she was staying with him she told me he was “lonely after a difficult divorce”!!!
He moved the first one in just after divorce finalised but she left, as did number 2 and 3 who both followed within the year. I heard from a mutual friend who had met them and supported them through this that they’d said he was too controlling. There’s been another since, possibly more but he’s still not found that elusive person “to love him” he told me his first wife didn’t love him, he probably told them all the same about both me and her!!
I dread to think how many women he has messaged and dated in all.
He clearly has an issue with relationships….😉
Dont let the behaviour bug you, that’s probably what he wants and as you say it let’s you off the hook

I had caught me ex so many times I seen so many txt messages to different Women he was still logged on to one of the sites so I saw so many different online chats all same situation trying to meet up one I know for definat he had actually met as one of the messages read same as last time?? The rest I expect he had met up but of course denied. At one point I even found he had sent flowers to be delivered. This happens over so many years. You never really get that trust back I cried everyday for about a year. When you think they don’t do it any more, it’s not that they don’t do it they get better at hiding it.