Advice…

[Bingo-bongo]

Guys! Help me be rational!
Just gone to hang the laundry, and his shirt smells like weed.
It’s been through the wash, and there’s only his shirt that smells of it.
Thing is, I genuinely don’t think he has anybody here to buy it from?
Am I being weird? Please tell me, are there innocent things that smell a bit weed-ish?

[HopeLifeJoy]

How about stopping doing his laundry? Buy him his very own basket so you never have to smell and touch any of his clothes ever again. More time for you. I mean it seriously, I did it with my ex.
I don’t know about the weed, so I can’t advice you there.

[Flowerchild]

There’s always a dealer, darling. Only weed smells like weed; it’s unmistakable. If you can smell it, he’s using it. You’re not imagining this

If you confront him, he will almost certainly deny it. File the knowledge away and act accordingly.

If he’s promised to stop, or to save the money, he’s let you down. You don’t need him to admit it. There will be other signs. I’m sure you know and will be able to recognise them.

If you plan to get out, remember you don’t need his permission and you don’t have to prove anything. The choice is yours, darling.

Stay safe.

Flower x

[Author]

Posts