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Had another argument (timeframe removed by Moderator). (detail of argument removed by Moderator).
He then twisted the course of events. I’m not drunk and I know what happened. He keeps saying he pays for everything but I make him pay me back for everything I buy him which is just a lie.
It’s making me feel crazy trying to keep up with the things he says and it makes me feel horrible that he thinks these things and can speak to me how he does.
I’m so exhausted and I wish I could leave but I’m financially dependant on him. I’ve put up with this for ages now and it’s just getting worse.
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Hi Sogo1234,
Thank you for sharing with us. I am sorry to hear about what is happening, it sounds really distressing and exhausting for you. I hope posting on the forum is helping. It is common for abusive people to turn things around to blame the other person to shift any responsibility, you haven’t done anything to cause his behaviour.
Have you got any support? It is a lot to deal with by yourself. Do remember there is the Live Chat if you feel it would help to talk things through with a Women’s Aid worker. You can find the Live Chat here.
Keep posting when you can, there is support here for you.
Best wishes,
Lisa
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