Sadly, again, no quick fix, talking therapies, counselling, patience, kindness towards your self, time, doing little things that make you happy – all help.
I am trying – EMDR – it is challenging, and taking time, but I am learning to feel safe with my counselor, exploring the trauma, unpicking it and taking things at my pace, finding new depths is challenging, but it is slowly, slowly begining to work.
It is a journey, taken step by step, and it is doable.
Good luck, it is worth the time and effort, to re find and love the person you are/were, before the abuser did the damage.
Sending healing hugs xx