Ashamed

[Better-days]

I didn’t realise that so many men do the whole you don’t love me thing u till reading some posts I thought it was only mine. I just respond no u think that’s how I should feel towards u because of how u treat me. I’m on such a downer today because i went for lunch and came back had too much to drink and I was to have to kids as he had a thing to go to I totally just didn’t realise and ended up drunk. But now balls in his court and I’m spending the day feeling so ashamed of myself

[nbumblebee]

You have nothing to be ashamed of nothing at all. You went out you had a nice time you let go for a short while you needed some you time theres no shame in that none at all. No parent can ever say they have not done something similar I know I have. Its being human but they make us feel like we have to apologise for everyittle thing when its them who should apologise.
Rest up today maybe you can make it up to your kids another day not that you have too but you can. Rest up you deserve to do you xxxxc

[Footballfan1]

Do not feel ashamed.
We drink more or rely on other outlets when in an abusive relationship.
You are trying to survive, that is all.
You are a good person, do not doubt this.
When I was in my abusive relationship, I managed to survive for decades before starting to drink more.
He held it against me, threatened to tell people and did tell people.
As soon as I plucked up the courage to end it, the need to drink disappeared.
He still says I drink too much now, months later.
He just assumed I am addicted.
It wasn’t an addition , it was a means to get through the s****y torturous days.
Stay strong, you are a good person.
You will get through xx

[Better-days]

Thank you ladies u don’t know how much I needed to hear this right now.
Today was a good day and do u know why I think because he knows I feel vulnerable. But I can totally relate some days his face coming down that bath is enough to open a bottle of wine. Thanks again coming here keeps me strong. Xxxx

[Footballfan1]

I’m glad you had an OK day.
It worked out better than you thought didn’t it.
We all have good days and bad days.
Stay strong x*x

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