At breaking point

[Jessie]

So heres me trying to do my best to move once again somewhere safe theres myself and my son who went through a string of abuse and I moved on with my new partner and my ex sent him death threats and basically told him how I’m nothing more than a prostitute then we get a happy new year and incase your wondering I was advised not to block him on social media by police as he is dumb enough to tell us if hes coming as he has done before now it’s been since my son was a baby I left my ex (removed by moderator) so we moved to where I am I did DV courses been through court over access and no contact is allowed however I also previously had a criminal restraining order and non molestation which have ran out and till I gather enough evidence I cant get another (removed byy moderator) and no order can be put in place till after court now my ex knows exactly where i live i get no help from my family they just ain’t like that now current situation is I’m looking to move out way out (removed by moderator) to somewhere I’ve never been but no one seems to be helping my council wont even bother to reply to my DV worker to get target (removed by moderator) the place I’ve applied for dont seem to take it serious and my current council have to give them a character reference now before I moved in with my partner I had a place but because I was put on universal credit it messed up my benefits and I had an appointment which they said at jobcentre they’d pay rent straight to council as I have mental health problems but never did which left me with my place repossessed so I moved in with my partner so I know council wont give a good character reference and I will be refused to move I’ve tried to look at the new legislation that they have to accept me I even have letter from marrak but wasnt given a idva as my social worker I had didnt tell me so i wasnt given one and all i have is a letter and dv worker I’m at breaking point i feel like everything is all on me I’m packed and ready to go as i was assured I’d be moving soon but that wasnt the case i have to application forms and another 5 steps before I even get accepted the property they willing to give me it’s been (removed by moderator) years and I’m still no better of so that’s why I’m looking to relocate (removed by moderator) I just want out even a 1 bed flat I would take just to be safe as I cant go to refuge and leave my current partner hes not done nothing wrong it’s my ex and have a son dog and cat who are the only reasons I keep going it’s got to point I’m even regretting being alive as my life hasnt improved one bit I’m still bk at square one no matter how much I try so any advice on what to do what help is out there I’d love to know as I cant keep living this way

[KIP.]

You could go to a refuge in the area you’re looking to relocate to until you can get housing sorted there. Your partner doesn’t need to go with you until you’re out of refuge and have your own place. I’m sure he would understand that your safety comes first.

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