Attention seeking

[Mellow]

This is bugging me it bugged me before but I don’t understand he’s looking for attention from me I can see it at corner of my eye things like shouting singing dancing I’m wondering if anyone else’s partner does this

[Bananaboat]

Yes I had this. Singing, whistling, burping, farting, anything to say ‘I’m here don’t forget it’ as a way to intimidate and try to get a reaction. If I reacted it would give him an excuse to explode.

[Mellow]

It disgusts me and the farting aswell it’s like they let smelly ones off on purpose for a reaction.sometimes when I look away he even asks me to look .everything is done loudly even when they are supposed to tiptoe like purposely waking you up somehow.phones loud talking loud the more I’m with it the more disgusted I am.

[Hereforhelp]

Yes! Mine would do random silly dances, songs, suddenly chase one of our children (who were way too old for that sort of play)… he would be extra noisy if he did anything in the house, would sing, bang and just act put to get attention…. quite bizarre really his behaviour when I think back 🤔
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[Cosmicasca]

Yes I had a female friend with similar traits to him and she did this when she heard or saw me approaching! Very weird! Or she’d sing what she was thinking as she heard/saw me. Like the line of a song would come out and the lyrics would be related to whatever she/I was doing at the time. No joke, it was bizarre. He never used to do it. I’ve never seen it before.
It’s almost like a nervous reaction but misplaced because they don’t really feel in the normal way.
Thank you for this, I have often wondered about that!
PS: Mercifully I have never experienced the farting!

[Mellow]

Thank goodness I’m not the only one I had to ask because I’ve never experienced it in another relationship I started to think I was the crazy one thinking it but he looks in mirror and calls himself names in a good way .every time I’m walking about he dances in front of me constantly looking for my attention I actually see him looking at me for the attention he’s not wired up right he never does it when we are in public though it’s soo weird.public it’s all normal even flirts with me despite relationship over.thinks he some god

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