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[Confused123]

Hey not sure if can even post,but will try. So left a DV relationship (timeframe removed by Moderator) years ago ,in between I have private rented and last (timeframe removed by Moderator) years lived with my elderly parents. Never did I ever think parent abuse existed . Maybe I’m in wrong but here’s where I want views.

 

House rules ,no friends allowed around for me or my son in (adult age removed by Moderator), we pay for all the household bills and follow all rules like keeping house tidy , cook for ourselves . They don’t like if me and My son go out , to be honest I be just reduced going..told them I’m going holiday alone , which they don’t approve . Have now told me they will start charging rent ,even though they know I’m struggling financially. I asked if any issues they said they don’t like my son going out and maybe he should move out .I asked if they don’t want us to live there with them. My dad replied I’m not answering that . They treat me and my kids different to other siblings and grand children .

 

Am I in wrong for been upset

 

[Cherries]

I think they are coming off to me as very controlling. My parents were very like this. Suffocating

[Confused123]

Just realised my post has been listed twice.  Thank you for reply . I just feel numb that I’m back in this situation again where I have to start over again . I think what hurts is the difference they show between me and other siblings, no matter how much I do , I just don’t feel good enough. Maybe that’s on me and inner work I need to do . If I was disrespectful I could understand, but yeah maybe this is wake up call I need

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