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      Anonymous
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      I’ve been apart from my abusive ex , some months now , blocked every avenue of communication from him in trying to move on with my life , couple of (detail removed by moderator), why I have no idea ? I said at the time I didn’t want to be involved and to keep me out of this , he responded to her immediately, nothing about me though which was good . Now it won’t stop , she either (detail removed by moderator) They weren’t friends before . There is a restraining order in place against my ex , but with no proof of messages mentioning me , or any messages passed , that is not a breach . I just don’t know how to handle this as it makes it look like I’m encouraging her to do this , when it’s the complete opposite. Do I message her myself stating all the facts , or do I wait till (detail removed by moderator) to tell her ? I blame myself in all this as I didn’t think it would still be carrying on so many months later , I’ve made it clear I’m not interested, but it doesn’t seem to be stopping. She (detail removed by moderator), he accepted, his not meant to be near me or so many yards within my work place , it’s all causing me anxiety and I find it hard as it is going into that area due to triggers , but it’s my own business ! any thoughts would be helpful Thanks xx

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      Weemebreeze
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      I’m so sorry to hear that you’re in this situation. It’s such a mystery trying to figure out some people and why they do certain things. This woman sounds like she’s deliberately causing trouble – how difficult would it be to cut her off?

    • #147517
      Anonymous
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      I’ve told her numerous times not to message him in my shop or tell me about him , I’m hoping what I said yesterday will stop her . Thing is tho , like most of these guys all they need is a crack and they will use it for their own gains. , I’ve been very careful so far not to allow anyone on his side to get access to me , now it seems his latched onto her x

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