Buckle in it’s a rollercoaster

[Justinelove]

Me and my child’s father have been together for (timeframe removed by Moderator) years finally split (timeframe removed by Moderator) but we was still doing family stuff etc. fast forward (timeframe removed by Moderator) ago he was asking to come home I was really thinking about until I found out he had a new girlfriend and she’s pregnant after (timeframe removed by Moderator)! Jesus I am floored: beyond that time he have been coming back here and going up there playing us both. He’s basically been living a double life with her and her children. Doing drugs not working etc Anyway (timeframe removed by Moderator) he turned up at my house to see his child. A couple of hours later he turned into this crazy person locked me in the house and smashed my phone up. He strangled me,beat me,punched me and kicked me. I have now found out he is on cocaine. Police was phoned (legal detail removed by Moderator) This whole situation is a mess! He is on bail, expecting a child with someone he’s known for (timeframe removed by Moderator). Has a (age removed by Moderator) year old with me and now I have to go through (legal detail removed by Moderator) which I have never done before. And his exuse for my injuries was rough S** which is very well not the case. He even bit a chunk out of my (body part removed by Moderator) and left teeth marks in my (body part removed by Moderator).

[EvenSerpentsShine]

Hope you are ok, what you’ve been through sounds really frightening.

It’s a good reminder that you just never know when abusers who carry this kind of disrespect/hatred for women will become physically violent.
None of the women who are killed every week in this country expected to be killed. I know that sounds obvious! But sometimes I wonder whether police and society at large actually understand this.

No woman answers the door thinking”oh I think he’s carrying a concealed weapon today”, or walks to the shops thinking “I think he’ll jump out of a car and beat me to death on the street today”, or “ I’ve got a feeling that he’s going to push me over a cliff on this camping holiday next week”.
Sounds like this pretty much came out of the blue for you too.

So sorry to hear about it. Hope you are recovering? Xx

[Justinelove]

I don’t feel anything. I’m numb and stuck in a trauma bond. I’ve reading old messages between us and I’m having panic attacks. Ss haven’t been in touch yet but they will so I may ask for some courses/help.

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