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      abcxyz
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      Hoping someone can give me some guidance.

      My husband is filing for joint custody. I could write a book about what a joke this is, and can’t be pleased enough that we escaped his crazy behaviour.

      He currently sees the kids nearly every w/end, at sports fixtures etc. and they stay with him on an alternate Saturday night. They also speak to him 3 times a week and are welcome to email him anytime.

      They are spending nearly a week with him over the Easter hols.

      Anyway, I have a called with Cafcass lined up for this week. I have plotted all my thoughts down – physical, emotional, safety, practical concerns etc, and then also the steps that I have taken for the transition (including recognising his role in their lives).

      Can anyone give me any pointers? How can I ensure that he doesn’t totally pull the wool over their eyes?

      Thx in advance x*x

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      EeyoreNoMore
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      Hey hun, I’m sorry if this is going to sound harsh but if he’s an abuser why are the kids spending half the holidays with him?

      CAFCASS will ask the same.

      The one I had for my phone interview was not the one who wrote my S7 report. I think it depends how far into the process you go but if he’s looking for full time you’re in for a long haul.

      PM me if you want to talk

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