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Met someone new after a very long marriage of (removed by Moderator) abuse (not physical). Early days he bruised the inside of my (body part removed by Moderator) by sucking – I took photos, went mad and left him. He gave me space and sent messages apologising saying he didn’t realise. I thought I may be over sensitive after previous relationship. (timeframe removed by Moderator) had sex with him, quite a few times. He was frustrated I couldn’t get properly into it, but I was trying and we were consensual. The (timeframe removed by Moderator) time he put his hand around my neck and growled (like a frustrated growl) and squeezed quite tightly and I was shocked I cried out and he (detail removed by Moderator) then finished what he needed to do. I was scratching at his (body part removed by Moderator) and bit his (body part removed by Moderator). Afterwards he cuddled up and asked if I was okay because I was quite hard to read. Is this normal. How can I approach him about it? I think if I do, he will be apologetic. I feel like I’ve got a sore throat from it – is that normal – like I have to keep swallowing.
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Hi Enidblyton,
It’s not okay that he’s done this to you, you consented to sex with him but you didn’t consent to him choking you. It isn’t normal to do something like this out of the blue and it can be dangerous. I’ve just sent you a private message about this with some more information.
Best wishes,
Lisa
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