Confused

[Taylor]

For years i have been with this man who i now feel he just tolerates me he lives with his parents and only time i see him is on his terms he will see me but the next day he walks away and i get silence. He will be on social media but wont ring me or message me so i end up telling him how i feel and yes i Accuse him of messaging women or asked is he with someone else if i do this the sileñt treatment gets worse he will totally blank me this goes on for days weeks if i let it. He never contacts me and if i ask him why do you ignore me he uses excuses hes stubborn and hes fedup of being accused all the time. I accuse him because hes a compulsive liar and hes messaged woman including woman i no. Is this abuse? Why cant i just let go its driving me insane

[Marmalade]

Hi Taylor, This sounds totally miserable.

Basically it looks like this man is just telling you he’s not really interested. You chase him, he sees you then drops contact with you again in a never ending cycle. From your post you are gaining nothing from this relationship and it is only hurting your confidence. It’s really not healthy to end up in a position where you are constantly accusing him of contacting or seeing other women.

Take a step back. You are worth more than this. You deserve a man who wants to be with you and with whom you can plan a future. It really doesn’t sound like this man is going to be that person. It’s hard to break away, but this current situation offers you nothing but unhappiness.

Good luck.

[Taylor]

I am finding it so difficult i no what i need to do and let go completely but something keeps me hanging on to him. I no in my heart he doesnt want me but if i go no contact he will  contact me i reply then he will give me silent treatment or he will say i do love you he says hes stubborn thats his excuse for not seeing me. We lived together and were engaged until i found out he was messaging women including my friend that is what ruined us. I have put up with it for a few years now

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