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Finally gone no contact after significant period of separation.
Kids involved, have cut contact due to continuation of abuse of both myself and kids through seeing children.
Found all services to be completely over stretched and nobody helping in the here and now.
Im scared for me and my kids that this monster will rule our lives forever.. had death threats in the past to scare me. I’ve never been this brave before and all I can think of is stories of women mand children murdered AFTER a significant period of separation or custody issues, will we ever be free. My anxiety is through the roof …

[Iwantmeback]

Congratulations on taking another step away from him.🙂 Have you raised your concerns with the police regarding the death threats, I know everywhere is over stretched but in these days where women and children are killed months after leaving they have to take this threat very seriously. Would you consider moving areas, sometimes it’s better to just move than to allow others to trivialize our fears and we don’t listen to our gut instinct. Make an appointment with your gp too, that way it’s another professional in the bigger picture. Take care and be safe.
IWMB 💕💕

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Thanks for your reply . I feel like I took 1 step forwards in leaving, now 1000 steps back. n c for dv have taken info for non mol order, lady was lovely . However police told me as threats were verbal and not recent they are not going to do anything.. A domestic abuse charity are going to help me with support we just keep missing each other on the phone.
As for moving it’s really not an option at the moment it’s just so unfair , I wish I could erase him xx

[Iwantmeback]

That’s good news to hear, re non mol order. Yeah it would be so good to erase them but they’ve certainly made us stronger and face up to what we’re not willing to put up with in a relationship. Every cloud😏☁️ I’d journal every verbal threat manipulation and anything else he does, dates and times if possible. They’ll help in the long run fir any future court appearances if needed. Can’t believe the police can’t do anything about the threats, that’s crazy.
Take care
IWMB 💕💕

[diymum@1]

Hi there, if the police aren’t going to help I’d go to your solicitor, where there’s a means there’s a way. State the reason for no contact, fear, abuse it’s detrimental. Get the GP to how you are all feeling down on paper. My GP agreed it was a child protection issue we were referred to CAMHS. They were over stretched but I kept the letters for evidence. Go for a contact centre with supervised acess. The next time you go back to court and its still not working it’s time for contact to stop. Xx that’s what I did, stay strong it is possible to be free x

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