Devalue
Dehumanise
Denigrate
Destroy
Disable
Damage
Demonise (anyone who gets in the way of his control over you, including you)
Deaden (as in you end up shutting down in response to the abuse and numbing to the appalling behaviour)
Disparage
Disorientate
Defiance
Determination
Drive to get out and to live free
Dedication to other survivors
Dreams fulfilled
Defeat our abuser by truely living an authentic life
Drawn to good decent people
Directed by our intuition and knowledge
Decisive
Dark days are behind us 🙂