Did I upset you?

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- 19th August 2020 at 8:49 pm #112472
  
  Hazydayz
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  Is being honest with someone a mistake? some take it in the wrong way, & can so often see it as abuse? but why? if it’s well meaning & polite. Don’t people value honesty? Or is it because they are seeing someone who’s honest as an abuser of their feelings? That’s victim like behaviour isn’t it? 💞
- 20th August 2020 at 5:54 pm #112530
  
  PaleBlueStar
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  Being honest is never a mistake. But in an abusive relationship it is to be avoided!
  - 20th August 2020 at 7:37 pm #112534
    
    Hazydayz
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    Oh yes, I know. I’m sure I didn’t know the person at all!
- 3rd September 2020 at 9:37 am #113100
  
  LozzyX
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  In his head …me being honest is :
  Lying
  Makes him anxious
  Being angry
  Arguing with him
  Being difficult
  - 3rd September 2020 at 1:51 pm #113112
    
    Hazydayz
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    Like most wrong doers they refuse to see truth, put their hand up to being in the wrong, and genuinely apologise! Make changes to themselves. I’m feeling for you 💞
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