Did your abuser

[Anonymous]

Bring up anything they did for you or gave you? Even the minimum? And expect you to be entirely grateful and fall at there feet…. like wanting some kind of reward for the basics? Xx

[gettingtired]

Yes even buying a pint of milk at the shop I felt like I needed to be really grateful even though he forgot half the time x

[Hereforhelp]

Yes all the time. If he did say.. go to the local shop then he would want one of us to go with him and moody if he went.. like it was a big ask. Any cleaning he suddenly decided to do was a massive fan fare. He was a t**t

[Shura]

lol id have to be grateful for buying a shampoo which was a bit more expensive than usual, changing the bed sheets was an achievement for him, hoovering. after hed done some housework hed say im lazy and do nothing around the house which i do agree to some extent, because of him i had battled some weird feelings which i now know are signs of depression, anxiety and low self, hed pick up our child from school cos hes shift finished just before school day ending … i mean its everything he did he would expect the biggest round of applause x

[Am I to blame]

He told my daughter I didn’t appreciate the fact he got a vasectomy. My (detail removed by Moderator) year old daughter. Sometimes you have to try to laugh at their stupidity.

[Cedarlemon]

Yes , he wanted me to thank him for buying me foundation to cover the bruise on my (detail removed by Moderator) , how thoughtful of him (not) , he was being completely serious .

[Anonymous]

Mine said I should be grateful he picked me up and returned me. The occasional meal (when he did wrong) he detailed every little thing not that they were much BUT he failed to say what I’d done….😀

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