Does anyone else feel blamed?

[Rueltas1]

The people who you finally confide in seem to now hold you responsible to the constant emotional blackmail and blackmail that he does using your young son!! As if I don’t feel s**t angry and hurt enough when he smirks at me knowing I know exactly what he’s doing!! I just can’t win either way and yet everything I try to do I’m always wrong

[Lisa]

Hi Rueltas1,

Thank you for sharing with us. I hope it is helping to post on the forum about what you are going through and how you are feeling. Abuse is exhausting to deal with. Do you have support from your local domestic abuse service? They can often offer ongoing emotional and practical support. Details of your local service can be found here.

Do keep posting when you can to let us know how you are.

Best wishes,

Lisa

[Nowornever]

Yes Im blamed for everything my eldest daughter doesn’t believe me when ive told her about all the stuff he’s done to me ! It’s so hard and heartbreaking that she’s so cold towards me , but he’s such a good lier I have no chance

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