Does it get any better?

[Exhaustedallthetime]

Hi all, I’m new to this but just thought this would be the best place to just get some reassurance.
I left my abusive partner a little while ago but didn’t realise how much harder it would be after I’d left. Since leaving it’s been a battle to just survive if I’m honest. He has made up false allegations to the police and it’s been a struggle to get them to believe me, (legal detail removed by Moderator) it’s just impacting massively on my mental health. Every time I get somewhere he does something else or makes up another lie to another agency involved. I honestly feel like this is worse than any abuse he put me through when we were together and I just can’t see a light at the end of the tunnel. I guess I’m just looking for advice from people who have been through something similar and come out the other end. If there even is an end to it? Or if it ever gets any easier? Thank you

[StrongLife]

Yes – after a while it does. I found after a while – and continual blocking of ex ended  up working plus moving. It was a long process though- there is a process to the leaving I found. It took time and a lot of scare and lawyers etc.

 

It was all traumatic though. Very bad. I had a lot of help from experts experienced in this.

 

 

[InShock]

Check out non-molestation order.

[Exhaustedallthetime]

Thank you both. Will look into non-molestation order. It’s helpful to know that one day it’ll get easier. I guess it’s just a process and a long one at that. Some days I think I’ll be ok and other days I struggle.

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