Emotionally and mentally this isn’t right?

[Chocolatebunnie]

So the other day kids had a (detail removed by Moderator) club to attend

recently they’ve been moved to a different class and it’s spiked anxiety in one child, he’s anxious generally. So getting him to participate has been difficult and then again a medical condition was thrown in the mix, to start with we insisted one still doing the club but then I thought some more and changed my mind.

husband very angry that I changed my mind, I felt overreacting saying something like I was confusing him, he didn’t know what was going on, he has no say, I don’t back him up and blaming me for trying to make our son go t the (detail removed by Moderator) club at all he said it was unreasonable for me to act this way

at the club he disappeared without saying where he was going, he had keys for car and this made our son even more anxious as daddy was angry and acting so strange, anger was at our son for not doing the club.

as the day went on he continued to be angry, not buying me lunch but buying the kids lunch, but making the point that our son is lucky to get anything for not participating.

he got himself a coffee, I have very little money so I rely on him to buy stuff while we are out. Plus medically I have to eat and I went all day with only a drink in the morning, no food He didn’t care, then suddenly he wanted to buy me lunch, and be nice.

i wasn’t feeling like just excepting it was ok because he decided it was ok now, i was feeling very hurt. Instead of him realising this he then got back to to being mean to me, retaliating I guess

im still upset, he’s been unhelpful around the house (he’s waiting for intimacy) but I’m still not wanting to be bothered I’m hurt. He also is aware I had a very very low day emotionally the day before all this, it’s lie he just doesn’t register.

i didn’t thing I’d see this in him again, but the mad has slipped away a little, and it’s brings it all back.

 

[Anonymousmuma]

He bought everyone’s lunch apart from you? And he knows you have no money?

[Chocolatebunnie]

True and helps to reread what I’ve written a few days later you can see things better

[Chocolatebunnie]

I forgot this happened and I’m glad I posted as I’m seeing a pattern again

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