My mentally and emotionally abusive ex is in a new relationship. The feelings I have about this are so complicated. I’m jealous – we were engaged just a few months ago. And also, cruelly, I hope he treats her how he treated me. I understand that’s so terrible but I can’t help it – I’m starting therapy soon.
I sent the girl and anonymous message to warn her and she laughed. The police know his abusive history and also comments he had made about children but he seems to get away with things again and again. I emailed the domestic unit to tell them he’s with someone new just incase they can warn her.
its so difficult. I hate him but I also miss him. It’s like Stockholm syndrome. I want him to feel the trauma he put me through but he’s not capable of proper human emotion.
how do we get past this? It’s so difficult