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Today I’m feeling sad. Not my normal anxiety, no feelings just sadness. I’m emotional and just exhausted.
I’m sad that the nice guy I met those years ago, wasn’t who he said he was. I’m sad for my break up and feeling discarded. I’m sad for my daughter looking for her daddy every day and I’m sad for my unborn child that this stranger has let us all down.
Anyone else feel great sadness after they leave you? X -
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Hello lostandbroken, it is sad what you have written and all I can offer is this… a long time ago my now ex husband left me and our children homeless for another woman. It hurt like hell! But we got over it and survived. Him, his relationship ended and his life never got any better! Hope that helps you💞
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P.s. my youngest daughter was (detail removed by moderator) old and my eldest just (detail removed by moderator) old at the time. I think he had been having an affair throughout my pregnancy also. Your hurting for your children that’s very natural, promise you this sadness will pass even if it doesn’t feel like it right now💕
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Balloons I’m just mentally and physically exhausted with it all. I’ve been getting out everyday to keep myself busy I think I’m over doing it now.
Hazy I’m so sorry you went through that, how devastating for you and your children 💔
I look at her and just cry, mornings she looks for him in the lounge (because he stopped coming to bed he slept on the couch)‘where are you daddy’ That breaks me! He’s giving her (detail removed by moderator) hours a week, that also upsets me. When he split with his other daughters mum there was a huge deal about the child, always has been. Don’t understand why it’s not happening with our (detail removed by moderator) year old!! She deserves nothing but the best, she’s just so cute and she’s missing out on her daddy! X
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It does break our hearts feeling the rejection for our children and because of this it takes US longer than our children to accept daddy’s not here? Children do adapt to change, mostly within a fairly short time if everything else remains constant and if there’s no animosity between mummy & daddy witnessed. That’s advice I was given at that time but It was difficult so I understand what you may be feeling. I remember feeling it was like a bereavement?losing a husband and my children’s daddy? but he hadn’t died! & I remember thinking it would have felt easier if he had! My grown up children don’t recall any of it they tell me, it’s the relationship your children have with you as their main carer that matters most now to support their transition and yours. You will all come through this, promise 💕
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I’m feeling exactly the same today. Currently sat on the bathroom floor with the bath running so no one can hear me crying. I hate the fact that my children are now from a broken home 💔 I’m so tired of wondering how we’ll cope, where we’ll live. I just wish We could see into The future to know it’s all going to be ok x
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He is a fantastic father I have to admit, and i get that, he may have a soul and be going through his c**p too, I don’t know. My third party has given him a kick up the back side and told him the troubles I am having with his child so he’s stepped up, a bit.
I’m still zero contact and will remain that way until I am strong enough.The way I am forcing myself to see it now is families And homes come in all different shoes and sizes. My family is a mixture of friends and other family members. She is becoming a lot more settled and we spend a lot of time with these people. My home is not broken anymore because I am becoming stronger by the day. And I am forcing myself to look ahead on a brighter note, hoping to book a holiday with the family after lock down and definitely one for next year. Move home etc. It’s baby steps for now but having a little something to look forward to is helping. Xx
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