Hi Notsofun
Thank you for your post. I just wanted to show you some support. It certainly doesn’t seem fair or safe for a perpetrator to stay in the home.
If you feel like you are in need of some additional support, you could chat to a Women’s Aid worker in confidence via our Live Chat service (weekdays 10am – 4pm and 10am – 12pm weekends). They won’t tell you what to do, but can discuss your situation and signpost you to other support that’s relevant for you. You can access the chat service here:
https://chat.womensaid.org.uk/
Take care and keep posting
Lisa