Feel like contacting him

[Anonymous]

To wish him well….its just been left now sounds silly doesn’t it after what he’s done…he will never wish me well x

[Cedarlemon]

Hi icandothis

I think you have answered your own question here. You can never wish an abuser ‘well’ as they will grasp at anything and think that you are interested again. Saying that I contacted mine while a restraining order was in place and it was the worst thing I’ve ever done. It caused terrible problems and I was right back to square one stuck in the cycle of abuse. I got some fantastic advice from some lovely ladies on here and I eventually sorted it out but it took along time. My advice to you would be leave well alone (I realise it’s hard) but reading your posts nothing good will come of it . you are doing so well , try and focus on yourself and your family , you will have moments like this but believe me you are so much better off without him. X

[StrongLife]

I cut all contact. It’s difficult. Do you have therapist or social worker that can help you.

He would not have changed.

Live your new life.

[Author]

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